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I believe them one other things
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that is a huge problem for people they don't know how to receive correction
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without letting it condemn them
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i really wanna center on that
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quite a bit because the only way that we can grow up let me ask you a question do
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you have children how many have children
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alright have you ever had to correct them leaders consider that part of
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growing up to
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well we're got chilled when we come into this walk with God
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were maybe christians and we have to grow up
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and part in the way that God helps us grow up
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is true correction through chastised
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and the Bible says very clearly they got all my
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correct those home he loves we on the correct our children because we love
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them
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many times truth be told we'd rather not mess with it it wants to punish the kids
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gidon
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house all week was just gonna make you miserable but you do it
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because you love them we don't while
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taking things away from our children that we know
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is gonna really want them emotionally but we do it because
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we love them and got correct us
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because He loves us when God tries to correct this is my response to that
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correction is condemnation
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then we don't receive what God is trying to do and we just have to go around that
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mountain another time a spiritually mature person
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can actually be grateful when God show as them
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something that's wrong in their lives are in the edited
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and they will be very quick to repent and very grateful that God cared enough
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about them
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to open their eyes there's no need if you know who you are in Christ
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if you understand righteousness through the blood of Christ
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if you understand that you're a very love
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child I've got and that you have been made right with God through the blood of
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Jesus he sees you as justified
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made just as if you had never seen got correct you
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there is no reason to come under condemnation you need to be secure and
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say I know I am God's child I'm not gonna be condemned
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I am NOT the Devils best if God is correcting me about this I'm gonna sleep
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as corruption
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I'm gonna grow and get beyond not gonna have a bad attitude about
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into getting here's my walk with God I go to a meeting
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much like this and back then we were
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have week long camping three in four meetings today
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I don't sit in all those meetings in man everything I heard I needed
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anything you preached on I had a problem with
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it didn't matter it was the mind my was messed up it was a mouth mine was messed
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up
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it was self-interest that was me it was bitterness that was me
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but every time I would just go home and be more more condemn
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yet another thing now I'm gonna change another
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what's wrong with me well first of all I didn't yet have the understanding that I
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couldn't change anything
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at all God wanted me to do was agree with them and say you're right God
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I do have a problem and i'm sorry
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and I want you to change me forgive me God
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and change me work with me and don't ever leave me alone until
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I am what you want me to me but it's gonna take absolutely for
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ever if you don't get over being condemned all the time Philippians 3:12
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Paul said
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any news fall he knew he had not arrived
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at the place to perfection they kept pressing on
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I know that Paul was not condemn
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you know why because when you're condemned you can't press on when you're
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condemned all you get is pressed
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down Paul display
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I'm not perfect and so I'm pressed down
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I'm depressed I'm in a bad mood about this
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he said I like gold what lies behind
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I know I have not arrived but I'm gonna press toward
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that mark a perfection he know who
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he was in Christ you have to concentrate on everything that's wrong with you
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when God show you something is wrong with you just agree with him
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I agree got you're right
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I can't change myself but I sure what you did
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the part you can do is study the word in that area
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and trust the Holy Spirit to work that change
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any it may not happen overnight but if you keep agreeing with God
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little by little from glory glory you will
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change sometimes the changes are so minor that are almost imperceptible
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but if you look back over a year two years three or four or five
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you change I am NOT even remotely like the same person that I used to be
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I can't believe how angry I used to be how I have never had any peace
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I was always trying to figure everything out my
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was a mass Oct I keep my mouth shut
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and God has changed me
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any brought you here to change you
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as pat him on the head every night
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you want to hear I'm not just gonna call you the congregation
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and give all UHV personal problem please and tell you that you're going to get
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everything you want from God
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not that there's anything wrong with that
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but my part in the body prices to help people grow up
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so they can have what Jesus died to give them
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its to and care
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a joint heirs with Christ it's another thing to add a right
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ever all joint heirs with Christ but very few
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ever really inherits
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they spend all our time heading toward the promised land
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but never getting there and a lot of it is because what i'm talking about this
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weekend
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they won't forgive people that hurt
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they get offended
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the word offense coming to the Greek word scanned the law
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which meant the park the animal trap that the bay
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Kong on that more the victim into the trap
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that's what offenses its say bait
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heat baked people he tries to get them
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offended so then they can get better
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so then they can get resentful so then they can get off all
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ball case up arm forgiveness
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then love came flaw and where there's no law
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there's no power if I cannot work without lock
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gelation first bite work it and is energized
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throughout you not gonna get your prayers answered I don't care how much
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fight prayers you pry you're not gonna get your prayers answered
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if you met your spouse: all the time Mattie Ross
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better neighbors med we gotta get that stuff
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out of our lives so we can have power because there's only
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power more people choose to live in agreement
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come on now
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and I realized that we can always help how we feel about people
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i mean there are some people that make it almost impossible I come
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and I realize that we can always do anything about how we feel about people
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but we can do something about how we behave and how we act
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I don't have to feel like doing what's right to do what's right
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I'm and I
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feel like doing what's right to do what's right and neither
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near you and if we keep waiting to feel like you're never going to get around to
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it
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we have to what to do these things
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with all our heart the thing I want to do
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I don't know the thing I don't wanna David I do
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and Paul goes on lamenting his situation Romans seven well if I don't really want
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to do it but I do it is it really doing it
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you know that you know I'd like you to really get your brain scrambled if you
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read that
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I to look at that a good number years before I finally got
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and then he goes toward the end of chapter 7i says
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alright but I and I can feel his pain can you feel is pain
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all right you from this body
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debt in any
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answers that in the last verse in Romans seven
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he says 0 exclamation mark thank God
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hywell through Jesus Christ next Mars
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there's for not condemnation
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twofold URL price changes who walk not after the flesh
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got a big part
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the
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62 those principles of spiritual warfare
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Asian 611 280 put on the full armor of God
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goes in the individual pieces that the armor
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if you want to defeat the enemy if you want to block all st fiery darts
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put on a belt of truth
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that means when you get in trouble that's when you hang on to the word
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action says Titan the relative tree
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that means when you're having trouble you hang on the word tighter
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than you ever have before and a teleporter on
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the breastplate unrighteousness but here's what
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the Living Bible so it says
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where the breastplate up god's approval
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I love that you go around being condemned think about everything that's
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wrong with you all the time
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that's one issue got going on with you about that
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but he approves the view he doesn't approve everything you do
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but he approached the view you have to separate your from your do
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no matter what you know you're still children of God he still loves
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you know the whole thing your kids your kids
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you can rail on but nobody else better come along and say anything bad about
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and the truth is you're not on the Devils business and when he comes around
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tries to continue about your behavior you need to decide lol
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got me all about me before I ever showed up on planet Earth
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he loves me he has accepted me when I was Friday
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from the
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the don't just sit around
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none nope nerd
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yes no good that's right elements this is the way we go to church
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the way every Sunday morning
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this is the way we go back home this is the way we called
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now feel they have like that anymore
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we are the righteousness of God
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in Jesus Christ hard
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the got not surprise by your
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witnesses you may be
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but he's not I know sometimes we wonder how in the world could God news me
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pace with God peace with yourself
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am i say again if you can't get along with your not gonna get along with
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anybody else
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I didn't have any but tell me what I'm telling you I to find out the hard way
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I struggled for years and years and years and years trying to locate people
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get along with people
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I mean miserable I love God and I wanted to be kinda wanted to walk in the parade
12:45
in spirit I wanted to be a loving person
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and I just was not and there's a lot of Christians aren't very nice
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and I used to be one album
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but I found out what the router my problem was
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I couldn't love anybody else because I didn't really
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love me we all have claims about ourselves that we don't love
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but we can love ourselves the
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us that God has created us to be
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now the only way they were ever gonna get along with people
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now watch and listen to me the only way we're ever gonna get along with people
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is to give each individual
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a right to be who they are
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which is different then you
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I'm telling you 0
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import I love what the Apostle Paul said
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I have learned how to be all things
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to all people whatever it takes to win them
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and i think is that a learning how to be all things to all people
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we're trying to change all people to make them
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like a god's the potter
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were not and you probably have somebody
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in your immediate family
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that you need to go home in light of the potter's wheel
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because you've been trying to remove old amari fashion them
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into what you'd like them to be long enough and they are
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higher than that and just to get real blunt if you keep it up
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they're gonna end up not liking you
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at all people are created
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by God for freedom and liberty
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and expression that liberty and this whole
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pride thing comes into play here because for some reason we all
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Lake that were the ones that are right and everybody doesn't think like us
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do it like us like what we like what what we want has got something
15:06
wrong with them wat all
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for things to go around properly all of us
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and until we learn to have respect for all people there's gonna be no unity
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at the Games in our heart begins in our private thought life and how we think
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about people don't think that you could never treat people right
15:30
its gonna think about them wrong it's not just
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try to control our behavior we have to start by controlling our thoughts
15:43
how do we think about people
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now the minute I catch myself was somebody who's not doing it the way I'm
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doing it
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they're kinda entertaining me and I start to think
15:57
or room I
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salads stop Joyce stop
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lose the attitude you gonna talk to your cell you know I'm a meat and potatoes
16:12
person just tell me
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absolutely what I have to know no more I want all the details that's why I got
16:19
you just go take care
16:20
but there are some people who do I cannot
16:24
spend that not to tell you every detail just can't stand it
16:30
and I finally they just don't know how to talk without telling all that sooo
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it's a great way to work patients
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the
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me
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the
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we all have a right to have our own opinion
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without pressure
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from somebody else to have it be there a pic
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now what are the problems I believe we have is what we have a recovery Jack
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Shinar own life we can stand it when other people disagree with us
17:29
because we feel rejected when they did
17:33
and I just have a real problem with this didn't realize what was wrong with me
17:38
and I would always say today we can talk about anything
17:40
down from a related ever started a national conversation about
17:48
something simple like I'm out getting groceries
17:51
and all of a sudden you're way down the road from where fighting about 20 other
17:57
things that have nothing to do with
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you like how will I get from there to here and you just confused you don't
18:05
even know what happened
18:06
you're just trying to talk about something simple
18:10
and they've used to tell me
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we don't talk
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you talkin you want me to listen I come on ladies somebody might learn a lesson
18:25
there
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for me because you don't want to talk
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I'll moving on past that
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am trying to get you to understand that maintaining peace and unity and respect
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in your home is gonna affect your prosperity
18:49
it's gonna affect your promotion in life it's gonna affect your blessings
18:53
it's gonna affect the in morning on your life living the kinda like that God
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wants us to live does not come to us just because we do a buncha
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outward religious things it covers because we put them
19:07
into action in our daily lives at home behind closed doors
19:12
in the marketplace in the grocery store at our place the business
19:16
at our school at the only place we're going to behave in church
19:31
so David I we just had these arguments and I get so confused and I just didn't
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understand and I would say you don't really want my opinion you just want me
19:38
to agree with you in
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if he didn't agree with me that I would keep talking talking talking talking
19:43
talking talking
19:44
trying to change his mind and even try
19:48
I have a right to my opinion and I thought well of course you do
19:53
any like one why do you keep trying to get long story short got timely really
19:59
just gave me a revelation and he said Wednesday
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doesn't agree with you you feel rejected and you have to understand
20:09
that just because he doesn't agree with your opinion
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that doesn't mean he's rejecting you yet another place where we get our home when
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are due next up
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people have to agree with everything I think to love me
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there have to want everything I want to love me
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they don't have to like everything I want to love me
20:33
David love me but people have to have the freedom
20:41
to be who they are I just because they don't agree with you doesn't mean I
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don't love you
20:47
just simply means they don't agree with your opinion but you are much more
20:51
in European is just what you think
20:54
and who knows if that's right
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I get through to anybody
21:04
the
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your home the next time that say your home or your wife
21:17
doesn't agree with you about something and has to start a fight
21:22
so I respect that you're right to your opinion after they fight
21:27
finally wake up me a list that they
21:34
things that I think will help in relationships first ball be courteous
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and respectful
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toward others even if you don't agree with them
21:43
when somebody
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has a different opinion years don't like what how could you possibly
21:53
like is there well
21:58
I respect your right to have your opinion
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I don't particularly feel that way but I respect your rights to feel the way you
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want to feel
22:08
I believe away key piece in these situations and God can get in there and
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work
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way to let God be God
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number two listen with an open mind
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if somebody has a different opinion you don't just shut him out
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and stubbornly refuse to be open-minded even consider that they might be right
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and you might be wrong
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painful I know but helpful
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be willing to pray about what they said
22:39
the Bible says that wisdom is willing to yield
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to reason be willing to pry
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about what they said number four
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don't be touchy and easily offended
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don't be the kinda person so insecure
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that if you don't get fifty compliments today
23:05
you're falling apart number five
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keep looking for a place where you can agree rather arguing about what you
23:13
don't agree on
23:14
you can display Ameritech in trouble
23:18
if you will find one are two planes to start complimenting that person about
23:22
instead of 12 flames come armor and grumble about
23:26
I have left got nobody
23:31
complimenting well then you start
23:35
look right thanks
23:39
they're good about people look fun the flight
23:42
got a notice some you gotta do it all purpose spiritually
23:46
don't find everything you can wrong with your job be quite we got one if you
23:53
really don't like it that much then just let you might not get another one
23:56
but I started 12 trouble over there
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number six
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be very careful about voice tones and body language as well as ill chose a
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more
24:07
I've had an issue with the boys town's thing
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my father was a very hard hard
24:14
I am he just was me
24:17
and everything he said sounded mean everything he said sounded roth
24:21
and crude and harsh and sadly because I was around that so many years in my
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formative years
24:28
I came out very much the same way and I have begged and pleaded for gentleness
24:35
and kindness in
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tenderness that is just something that I have to stay
24:42
after in my life because i am just very walk
24:45
and not a problem telling you that we've all got things that we have to keep
24:55
working with God on
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boys town's body language
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don't you just hate it when you try to correct a teenager
25:14
ok I just don't like to discuss thank you are burning
25:30
another thing we need to do is
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what we need to have a confrontation was somebody to keep it from being strife or
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we need to pick the right
25:37
are not go try to confront a problem or somebody when they're really tired
25:44
about half sick
25:47
and I've already had a rotten day at the office
25:50
pray and ask God to show you the right
25:53
try me and don't just dive into situations without prying first if you
25:58
already know it's gonna be a little bit tedious
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that's why the wages keeps tripod in your life try and pick your time
26:05
ask God to anoint to open the door and then lastly if you want to get along
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with people
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we gotta get over being selfish well it's not all about me
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not all about you about all of us corporately together
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gotta love those all equally
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the power agreement is a wonderful thing
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